Thursday, December 22, 2011
Well, shit has hit the fan.
Title pretty much says it all. Found out today that my husband has been texting and talking to another woman. Apparently, she's been a "sounding board" for our relationship troubles. I'm so hurt and pissed. My trust for him is gone. There's so much more I wanted to write, but I can't even organize my thoughts.
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That absolutely freaking sucks! You're right to feel pissed. I'm pissed right along with you!
ReplyDeleteWho is this woman? Women aren't supposed to do that to other women! She sounds like a horrible horrible lady! Sounding board eh?! Good thing you found out! Nip it in the bud.
For what it's worth. My very best friend, from our school days. She married another of our friends. She called me last year on Skype to tell me, that she found out, he was having an affair with some girl who lives in the mountains somewhere in Colorado for a year. She was absolutely gutted beyond belief. I will never get over her crying to me on the skype telling me over and over again...'Gina it's been going on for a whole year!" we talked for 2 hours that day. I was her maid of honor at her wedding. She cried, she called him every name in the book, called *her* every name in the book, she cried some more, it was just a painful time, very painful. Though I'm closest to her, he and I were very close too. We were all pals from our school days, like I said. The trust she lost. Everytime he left/leaves the house, she is worried. She checks his cell, when he's in the shower now for the past year. It's been a very bad year for my best friend. And I just wish I could be there for her, though we skype every week, she's like a sister to me. They have 4 kids together and are not getting divorced.
Anyway I just wanted to say....it's awful, it sucks. And especially being so close to the holidays too. I'm so sorry M! I really am.
Thanks Gina. I'm grasping for support. I am so hurt and sadden with what has taken place in the last 48 hours. I don't know what to do. I look at Baby L and I know that she'll get me through this, but I wish I wasn't dealing with this in the first place.
ReplyDeleteWow, shit just doesn't even cut it. I'm a bit uncertain as to what to say because my hub texts a woman quite regularly and we have had several arguments about it. At this point I don't have reason to believe it is anything more than what it appears - or perhaps I just haven't got the strength to function properly if it turned out to be more and therefore am choosing to ignore it.
ReplyDeleteGah, I don't think its OK for a married man to be texting another woman and trying to keep it secret. Like you said, if there was nothing to it why delete emails, sneak off to answer the phone etc.
A really shitty time for this to be happening. I hope a virtual slap in your husband's face helps him realize he just needs to be honest. And I hope that leads to you being able to sort things out again.
Big hugs.
xxx
GW- he kept it hidden which is what upset me. You're right, a married man has no business texting another woman. It'd be different if they were BFF since forever, but that wasn't the case at all. I'm gonna make a new post to update. I'm hoping a big slap in the face he gets soon... Just to knock some sense into him.
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